What Makes Us Happy?

smiling woman looking upright standing against yellow wall

Grammar Flash

Practice making comparisons from this TED talk about what makes us happy. Then see how much you understood by taking a short quiz.

Before we look at examples from this talk, let’s start with the basics.

How do you make comparisons?

love baby boys family
Comparative form= Compare two items

Camila is older than her baby sister.

Camila is more active than her baby sister.

Superlative form= Compare three or more items

The dad is the tallest in the family.

The sister is the youngest.

The brother is the most energetic out of everyone in his family.

family of four walking at the street

Making comparative and superlative adjectives

In adjectives with one syllable, or two syllables that end in “y”, add -er when comparing 2 items. Don’t forget to change the -y to -i. Add -est when comparing one person or thing to a group of items.

Adjectives with
One Syllable
Comparative Superlative
talltaller the tallest
fastfasterthe fastest
Adjectives with
Two Syllables
and ends in “-y”
Comparative Superlative
happy happierthe happiest
healthyhealthierthe healthiest

In most adjectives with two or more syllables, add more or less when comparing 2 items. Add the most or the least when comparing one person or thing to a group.

Adjectives with
Two, three, or more
syllables
Comparative Superlative
comfortablemore comfortable

less comfortable
the most comfortable

the least comfortable
importantmore important

less important
the most important

the least important
**Irregular AdjectivesComparative Superlative
goodbetterthe best
badworsethe worst

Let’s look at a few examples…

Look at the images of these 2 activities that make people happy. Do you agree or disagree with the statements?

  • The surfer is MORE ADVENTUROUS THAN the hiker.
  • The hiker is in a MORE PEACEFUL place THAN the surfer.
  • The ocean is LOUDER THAN the mountains.
  • People are MORE RELAXED at the beach THAN in the mountains.
  • People are THE HAPPIEST when they are outside in nature.
  • People are THE MOST FULFILLED when they live life to the fullest.
Finally, look at how the speaker uses the comparative and superlative forms in this TED talk.

The comparative and superlative forms of the adjectives are highlighted.

Here are the clues to what makes people happy:

  1. “When we asked these same people [in the study], when they got to be in their 80s, to look back on their lives and to tell us what they were proudest of, almost everybody said something about their relationships.”
  2. “It turned out that the people who were assigned to talk to strangers [on the subway] didn’t think they were going to like it, but they turned out to be much happier at the end of the task than the people who just rode the subway keeping to themselves.”

Then he gives us some advice:

  1. “And finally, get more comfortable striking up casual conversations. That’s something we can learn to be more comfortable with, almost like exercising a muscle.” (**This sentence contains an implied comparative, meaning that you are learning to be more comfortable than you were before.)
  2. “Establish some routines with the people who are the most important to you. A regular phone call or a coffee every Saturday with someone you really want to be sure you see regularly.”

After reading these sentences, what do you think? What makes people happy? How can we become happier?

What do you think?

  1. Who are some of the people who are the most important to you? What makes those relationships special?
  2. When you think about your life, what are some of the things that you are the proudest of? How did others help you accomplish these things?
  3. Do you enjoy making conversation with strangers? Why or why not? Where could you practice this to get better at it than you were before?
  4. Make comparisons about the following activities. Do you prefer to do these alone or with other people? Explain your answers. Can doing some of these with others increase your joy and well-being? Explain.

For example: Exercising with another person is more enjoyable than exercising alone.

Exercising with another person is easier than exercising alone because it motivates me to keep going.

studying alonestudying in a group
exercising aloneexercising with another person
watching a movie alonewatching a movie with others
working on an independent projectworking on a group project
going out to eat alonegoing out to eat with others

Got it? Now practice making comparisons in this short quiz.

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